The next our talk we are going to devote to such interesting and common for today issue as threesomes. We want to find out the reasons and determine all pros and cons.

There many people who have tried to be with two partners at the same time and there are even more people who want to know how is it. One can name many reasons why do people look for two partners. For example the most interesting wish and dream for a big amount of men is to have sex with two girls at the same time. And there are plenty of girls who want to try to be with two men together. This one will thing is more unusual for girls but we want to admit it real.

One of the most common reasons which we have already mentioned is a wish to try something new. A person which is with one partner has feelings of one sort, and when he/she is with more than one partners he/she has another feelings. And for many people it is interesting to feel deeply both of them. It does not mean that this person will continue such relationships. Also there are such people who have been married for example, and they have such a feeling that they have missed something or just has not tried everything they wanted, so such people do such experiments. And of cause there are people for whom a traditional way is not interesting any more.

Reasons:

·         one's partner want to give more pleasure one wishes and that is why he/she inspired the idea of threesomes;

·         the biggest popularity of threesomes is among the people who like to have special relationships as with male, as with female;

·         for a girl who likes both sex it is rather ordinary to be with the man only, so she wants to have some variability. The same it is possible to say about men too.

·         at the same time it is correct for people whose mood and tastes change very fast and they are looking for something new all the time. So they will be the first people who will agree to get such an experience.

Threesomes and its kinds

The most common situation is when there is one male and two females. The second is the opposite situation to the first — one female and two male. So, there are also cases with tree males or three females. It is possible when lesbians or gays have sex with straight performers. Also there are people who like to watch how their partners have sex with the third person.

What are the pros and cons of threesomes?

We want to point to one very significant condition: everyone of people who are threesomes together should want to have pleasure otherwise there would be some consequences for them. As example, we can remember a couple where one partner wants to give strong pleasure to another and that is why he/she agrees for threesomes. Another con is connected with those people who are in marriage and are happy of this. Threesomes assume no commitments and absolute freedom. And when one's beloved has sex with another person even if there is no any love, it can lead to some troubles with relationships in future. Though if a couple has not serious relationships and both of them taking fun it would not cause any serious problems.

In the text above we were talking only about a couple in the relations of threesomes but we have not mentioned the third part here. For this person such relations are really not so difficult and problematic because he/she has no any commitments — just freedom in any kind of relations, form any marital problems. Moreover this person has even some advantages as he/she is the third — the new one what will be interesting as for one partner, as for another. Another negative moment here, in threesomes, is the situation where a couple has such an experience for the first time and there were not any previous tries. And the worst what can be is when a female in the couple do not want to have threesomes relations and any sex with another girl and when her partner urge her to do that.

The situation where there are affection and care present in such relationships, can cause some difficulties because one could feel strange seeing beloved with another man or woman. So it will be hard time for the couple who had threesomes relations in the past to go through it, and the third part would feel guilty for the possible troubles happen in a couple's relations.

What can we say into conclusion?

First of all is that it is necessary to recommend married couple or those who have serious relations not to try threesomes because of possible troubles which can lead to a break. If such people want to refresh their sex life they can try anything else as a dirty talk etc. However, if there is a person who has not any serious relations and wants to try threesomes but at the same moment has a little experience, we advise to not look for extra information before — it is much better to get it in the moment.

One should remember that it is possible to find one of the performers which was involved in the process. Also it is good for everyone to try the both roles: as a sex subject and as a performer. One more thing what is necessary to remember is to avoid neglecting any person to take part in the process: some people often forget about their partners concentrating on a stranger. This often causes marital problems after.

What is one of the key advantages of threesomes is an ability to give pleasure and happiness to two people at the same time and to watch how they feel it.