This method is based on the rule to
talk to a woman funny and using witty words what will certainly attract
attention. There are many people who know that this method is the best one but
the main advantage of it is the difficulty to use it. That makes this method
popular and interesting but not common which is possible to use everywhere and
by everyone. It is really difficult task to find really good word and a
situation, in the right time. The try to be witty can be considered as a bit
arrogant what can lead to implications and puns. People will not understand it
appropriate.
Have you noticed that for a girl is
it easier to get used to a person who jokes, but women might not do the same.
That is easy to understand: girls like to communicate with those who can joke,
who belong to a funny type of people, and women prefer to talk to that kind of
men who will say serious things with wisdom and sense. Remember that it is
possible to use this method talking with women too but one should modify it so
that would be allowed to pronounce. And of cause one should do that in the
correct time, place and situation. So that is the reason that the method can be
used only by those who know much personalities and ways how to deal with them.
As we have already said not
everyone is able to use this method because some people cannot joke in a light
form and sometimes they hurt somebody even if they did not want to. It is
necessary to spend a lot of time and energy to learn how to joke correctly. And
on more thing which us worth to be mentioned is an ability to determine the
type of the person which one wants to joke with.
We want to give some examples and
using them to show how to act.
One should always remember that
being cocky all the time is not so good and it is necessary to control its
extents. If one very arrogant a girl might think one being rude but if one acts
a bit humble she might come to conclusion that this man is too shy. One should
determine the golden middle which will be the best. Some people use jokes to
reduce arrogance.
One just need to remember that if
one starts to learn this technique one needs to go to the end and never give
up. And one should not release the power and authority which was gained in the
relationships with a girl otherwise it would be very hard to return it back.
One should act like this: keep her
waiting for something more in every word and statement one says. Es example we
can add the next: in the talk with a girl one should control the situation and
have an ability to change the subject or even to suggest doing something. One
can use such pick up lines as «you look very nice though I have been with girls
which are younger» or may be something like this: «oh, your dress looks very
nice as for a girl» or may be any another variant. The aim of all such pickup
lines is to flatter a girl but not too much for not being very rude.
After such lines a girl would ask
such questions as if it was about her dress, was it good or not etc. And again
one should not be direct in own answers to make this girl become more
interesting. «May be. I think I would be able to make a decision at the end of
this night». Such phrase is necessary to make the girl confused for some time
and to make one more deep and offbeat. She will become interested in the man
and would like to know about him more. In case if she ask about his job one
should not give the direct answer but to explain the job. As example, fashion designer
is such a profession which focuses on what all girls and women like to wear.
One should remember that all the
answers ought to be implicit and all the questions can be as direct as implicit
by one's own wish. For example, on one's question about her job she can say
that she is a manager in a company what can impress him. His phrase here can
sound like this: oh, and what are you going to do when you will be a full-grown
woman?» Such question should be pronounced in a humorless way, not to be rude
and hurt her by this question.
Be ready to a common talk of her
and do not try to look like a clown joking all the time. Such unusual sentences
should be used only from time to time otherwise one's such behavior can be
boring for her. One should be serious for some time to show that one is serious
in life too. In general one should be different and interesting.
This method in general seems to be
difficult for learning and turning into life. In conclusion we can say that one
can use any method which will be suitable for own personality.
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