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Why do some men are really very attractive and have plenty of women around and some cannot achieve the same results? Does it depend on status, money or something like this? We do not think that classes or life style etc. can play here a significant role. A personality is the exact matter of fact here. Now it is possible to find plenty of different methods which can help to become interesting to a girl. They are not too difficult though they need to be trained out before usage. Go on reading this article and you will find here some interesting information which can help to achieve a goal.

Our first advice is to use words correctly thinking about what and when you are going to say. Girls are different and one will be pleased to hear something dirty and another is looking for a prince. Articulation is one more important factor which plays very important role. Pay attention to her reaction and if you see that she is not very happy and interested in a talk with you, you should better look for another girl. Learn and do some conclusions all the time, watch what your words were successful and what you should not do any more.

When you have started a talk and have already met one more time, remember that there are three very significant points for every girl:

·         Be gentle all the time because it is the first think girls notice and it plays a key role in your relations.

·         It is almost unreal to make a girl happy when you do not know her really well but try to find out what she likes.

·         You should foresee what she wants you to do or what kind of relations she wants to have.

These three simple rules will help you be in the center of girl's attention.

And there is also one thing you should not do. We mean talking about physical relations because girls do not like men who think about it all the time and start to talk about it early, at the beginning of their relationships. Try to avoid this subject until the time when a girl herself will start it by any way. You will surprise by a girl needs to prepare to this emotionally and when she is ready she will give a sign.

Remember these simple rules and you will see that seducing is not very difficult thing to do.

Men who want to find a girlfriend or just to start a light conversation with unknown for him girl for relationships usually use such method as pick up lines. What are the most common, popular or corny pick up lines for today?

1.      «I guess I know why you look so tired... You've been running in my head all the night long.»

2.      «Girl, if you haven't felt in love with me yet, I can pass again.»

3.      «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?»

4.      «I guess I saw you somewhere before but I cannot remember where? Yes! You are my dreams' queen!»

Men think that such pick up lines are very nice and interesting but let's find out what is girls' opinion of them.

1.      I think that the most stupid pickup line which men use is «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth? » It is really primitive!

2.      I think one will not find a mind-blowing chat up lines. All women consider every pickup line as stupid and childish. And for those men who are very difficult to speak to a girl I would advise to turn to a professional.

3.      Haven heard millions of pickup lines I want to advise all men to speak with girls like with friends, ordinary, without something special. It would not be so silly. When you are going to listen attentively what she says, you will find all necessary and suitable words which would not be considered as silly and uninteresting.

4.      I came to an conclusion that the only reason of all pickup lines' failures is its primitive and brief.

5.      Pick up lines can be also very embarrassing and the worth one I have ever got is «I got a hard-on by just looking at you... Weird, right? »

6.      I consider all chat up lines very stupid especially if they are like «I guess I saw you somewhere before but I cannot remember where? Yes! You are my dreams' queen! » or «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?» I wonder if there is nothing interesting and really clever what can be said to a woman??

Some more girls' advice to all men about your pick up lines using:

1.      One should not pretend, prepare, plan etc. pickup line before coming up and talk. Everything should look natural. A girl might consider them embarrassing and very awkward. First of all men who use such pick up lines show himself as a fool. Next I would like to tell one story happened to me — I was at one station when a man came to me and said if there was a long flight. I did not got the meaning and ask: «What flight?». The answer was: «The flight from heaven to earth..». Such explanation made me feel bad because of this rude stupid try to start a conversation.

2.      I beg you not to use pick up line of any kind! Why cannot you understand that? Why do not you want to say something simple, nice, natural as «I happy that I've met you» or «You look very nice today». It would be better to say that you do not like to use such pointless chat up lines that most men like to.

3.      Girls, I think that you will agree with me with the opinion that a brave and even bold man is that who can and will try to get acquainted with a girl when she is sitting with her friends. There are plenty of men who still consider that when a girl is with her friends somewhere ( in a cinema for example) it means that one should not come up to. This statement is absolutely wrong. Many women go out for meet new people. And when a man approaches a girl when she is not along it means that he is enough courageous to come up and this is very important fact which can give some credits more. There are many ways to make a girl understand that she is the reason of this pick up. Men, use indirect chat up lines as for example, «Hi! I'm … I think that we have met somewhere before, have not we?»

4.      Being yourself is what all girls look for. All pick up lines sounds rather stupid because they are not natural, they do not show a man, they are just like common wide spread methods and ways to start conversation. It is really easy to tell your name and to buy wine, soda etc. to a girl, to say that she looks nice.. As for me, the best pick up I've ever had was a suggestion to buy some ale or wine.. One should remember only one rule: a man should approach a girl along, without one's friends, even if this girl is with her friends.

To chat up a girl or flirt with her, you need to know that it is more like a talent that not all people are gifted by. Men keep on attempting chat up lines and yet they end up failing.

On the other hand, girls do not really do that as much. Hence, you cannot expect an attractive woman to approach you pulling lines like “fancy a drink or something?” Most men get excited when girls start to show some signs of approval regarding flirting. However, they never think that you should be in tune with them, though.

Remember not to freak out when you see a strikingly beautiful girl in a ball all by herself. Do not expect a miracle from heaven that may send you an angel to chat you up somehow. Just do it and know that flirting is as simple.

• Keep Your Eyes Focusing On Her
Looking someone in the eyes is one important factor when it comes to flirting, that if you wish to keep the contact between you and her regardless of all the words. Just do not gaze like a tiger watching its victim.

Do it lightly and you would wholly captivate her encouraging her to do the exact same thing. Just make your look seem loving and admiring and do not confuse it with the look of someone lost.

• Make Her Feel You’re Into Her
Show her you really admire her because it is the most significant matter in the whole issue as women just love it! She would most likely do more than responding to your flirting and accept your dinner invitation.

• Captivate Her
If you want to attract a lady, shower her with nice captivating words. There is nothing wrong about praising someone just do not exaggerate or over do it. It is as easy as telling a girl how beautiful her outfit is tonight or even mention angels at some point and how she is more like them. Just do not lie about it because it would make it worse instead of better.

• Enjoy Your Time
No need for concern or worry; all you have to do is to sit back and enjoy your time. Do not forget that flirting is nothing serious anyway. Remember that when you are not feeling stressed out about it, this should make the girl respond more to you and your words. Flirting is known to be simple and uncomplicated. It is not like you’re going to war when you’re flirting!

• Keep The Cheerful Face
You could be wearing the best and most elegant suit you have, putting on a perfect perfume but if your face is not bright enough with a little smile then it will all go to waste. Smiling can definitely guarantee you success anywhere and everywhere.  With that smile on your face you are telling your “target girl” that you are really into her and want to have more of her. However, you should always make sure that she totally comprehends your gestures and signs before you attempt any further action. You can always make it light, simple and shining.

How do you think what is the most important part of relationships between two people what can enliven a love story. Some people do not know how to attract somebody of the opposite sex or they are too shy to try it. But these people are ready to be an object on which one can use some techniques of attraction.

Any man should remember anyway that there are special rules which can help to seduce a woman. One need not only follow them but also learn how to do them correctly. That is why one need to train and to do them over and over again to achieve positive results. Reading this article one will find out more interesting information about this skill.

We present several seduction methods which can help.

·          First of all one need to learn how to look in a partner's eyes correctly. If it would be too long she will feel awkward and if not enough long she would not understand the meaning. Actually, eye to eye contact plays very important role in attracting people and in our life in general. Eyes can tell everything what a person is thinking about, all secrets, wishes, dreams and feelings. Sometimes it is even better to talk by eyes than by tongue.

·         The second very significant point which can influence on the target is the right place, time and atmosphere. All these factors creates the necessary mood. First of all one should pay attention to the light and colors which are necessary to be warm, calm and nice. One should not use intense and dark colors which can spoil everything. Use the right songs and tunes because they will help too. Metal and hard music hardly ever will be appropriate.

·         As we have already spoken about music let's pay attention to such useful tune as dance. This is very important because: the first — almost all girls do like to dance and one will get extra points by dancing; the second — it will help to create the necessary atmosphere and the third — it is the best way to be closer to each other.

·         Do not be groomy and on the other hand do not be too funny. The best way is to be wise, discreet and have everything under the control.

·         And the last one very important point. One should be calm and self-assured otherwise it will worry one's partner.

This method is based on the rule to talk to a woman funny and using witty words what will certainly attract attention. There are many people who know that this method is the best one but the main advantage of it is the difficulty to use it. That makes this method popular and interesting but not common which is possible to use everywhere and by everyone. It is really difficult task to find really good word and a situation, in the right time. The try to be witty can be considered as a bit arrogant what can lead to implications and puns. People will not understand it appropriate.

Have you noticed that for a girl is it easier to get used to a person who jokes, but women might not do the same. That is easy to understand: girls like to communicate with those who can joke, who belong to a funny type of people, and women prefer to talk to that kind of men who will say serious things with wisdom and sense. Remember that it is possible to use this method talking with women too but one should modify it so that would be allowed to pronounce. And of cause one should do that in the correct time, place and situation. So that is the reason that the method can be used only by those who know much personalities and ways how to deal with them.

As we have already said not everyone is able to use this method because some people cannot joke in a light form and sometimes they hurt somebody even if they did not want to. It is necessary to spend a lot of time and energy to learn how to joke correctly. And on more thing which us worth to be mentioned is an ability to determine the type of the person which one wants to joke with.

We want to give some examples and using them to show how to act.

One should always remember that being cocky all the time is not so good and it is necessary to control its extents. If one very arrogant a girl might think one being rude but if one acts a bit humble she might come to conclusion that this man is too shy. One should determine the golden middle which will be the best. Some people use jokes to reduce arrogance.

One just need to remember that if one starts to learn this technique one needs to go to the end and never give up. And one should not release the power and authority which was gained in the relationships with a girl otherwise it would be very hard to return it back.

One should act like this: keep her waiting for something more in every word and statement one says. Es example we can add the next: in the talk with a girl one should control the situation and have an ability to change the subject or even to suggest doing something. One can use such pick up lines as «you look very nice though I have been with girls which are younger» or may be something like this: «oh, your dress looks very nice as for a girl» or may be any another variant. The aim of all such pickup lines is to flatter a girl but not too much for not being very rude.

After such lines a girl would ask such questions as if it was about her dress, was it good or not etc. And again one should not be direct in own answers to make this girl become more interesting. «May be. I think I would be able to make a decision at the end of this night». Such phrase is necessary to make the girl confused for some time and to make one more deep and offbeat. She will become interested in the man and would like to know about him more. In case if she ask about his job one should not give the direct answer but to explain the job. As example, fashion designer is such a profession which focuses on what all girls and women like to wear.

One should remember that all the answers ought to be implicit and all the questions can be as direct as implicit by one's own wish. For example, on one's question about her job she can say that she is a manager in a company what can impress him. His phrase here can sound like this: oh, and what are you going to do when you will be a full-grown woman?» Such question should be pronounced in a humorless way, not to be rude and hurt her by this question.

Be ready to a common talk of her and do not try to look like a clown joking all the time. Such unusual sentences should be used only from time to time otherwise one's such behavior can be boring for her. One should be serious for some time to show that one is serious in life too. In general one should be different and interesting.

This method in general seems to be difficult for learning and turning into life. In conclusion we can say that one can use any method which will be suitable for own personality.

There are many people who liked the Corny&funny method and do want to know about it more.  And there are some men who cannot understand that there is another way how to dare a girl instead of complimenting her.

We do understand such perplexity of these people because it is really difficult to realize that this method as all traditional is rather popular and efficient.

At first a man is about like this phrase – “Oh, when I tell her something like this she would think I am crazy or really full of myself!” Dear men, you are mistaken.

The main thing one should remember is that the objective matter is not pleasing a girl but to catch her. An easy example: an girl would consider such words rather rude and would not like to communicate but another girl will like it and think it is funny and nice. One should not use logic or mathematics to find a way to get a girl interested.

There is no doubt that everyone knows at least one couple where a man is rather rude with his girl and what is most interesting she is dating with him. And sometimes it can be rather unexpected to find out that even some quiet girls like such kind of treatment.

What can be the reason for such phenomenon?

It is really very easy – the matter is in the method of attraction.

A girl can fall in love with a man without using any logic and she will not even think about it! When a girl is in love, she cannot back off – it is really too hard – even if a man is not a super hero.

Next we are going to tell about the Cocny&funny method, its principles and technique, how to use this method and another useful information.

First of all we want to point that the Cocny&funny method requires as humor, as arrogance at the same time.

One should not be very conceited because in this case a girl may consider him as a rude man, and he might lose some points.

At the same time one should not behave like an idiot being fooling like a clown because a girl would like to spend some time with him at all.

So, the best way to behave is being arrogance and use humor at the same time. Such technique would make a girl being interested at this person what is exactly the necessary target for every guy.

And now we want to point some main principles of Cocky & funny method.

Some examples:

as self-confident phrase – “The outfit is showing her body in the worth shape”, as arrogant and humorous pickup line – “if this girl does not follow any fashion rules, they will arrest her for breaking all these rules”.

Is it clearer to understand the meaning of all words above?

Actually why girls can be interested in a man which uses this method?

By acting according to this method one can demonstrate and let know everything what one wants to and at the same time let something unknown what arouse girls’ interest.

Using the Cocny&funny method one has more chances to stick in memory than those who are already suck up to girls who do not even want to answer messages of such men. And it is not interesting for girls to communicate with those men who get easily anxious in their presence.

When one meet a nice girl which is really very pretty, it is necessary to act and be funny what will tell her something like this: “you is really nice and sweet but you cannot get my full attention. So the charm you have does not get me and at the same time there is some stuff in you that I like”.

Remember that it is necessary to be arrogant and have some tricks and amusements, and also one needs to have a control over a girl’s attitude and reactions.

When one follows all advice above such situation is possible:

Tomorrow. Supermarket. A queue to pay.

-         What is your share from all the money being paid? – a man ask.

-         I think nothing… though I would live to. – a possible answer

-         Actually I thought you are waiting for a commission of something… You look a pretty well-off and I thought it was possible of you to help me, at the moment, I am intrigued no more. – one should say that with self-confidence.

Remember that it is very important to create the feeling of the situation that the exact thing is interesting for him and no more. This line written above is thought to be a hit, a very popular and efficient line.

When one wishes to use this method as a professional, one should remember that it is necessary to keep oneself together and control own feelings. In case if a girl asks something like this: “Did I hear you right in the time when you were talking to me like that?”, do not tell that it was just a joke because this answer will create a lot of damage and can spoil everything.

To the answer like: “Listen to me attentively – I do not have such money but I am a sweet woman” do continue the play and say the next words: “It is not enough to be sweet; I want it and with cash at the same time”. The main aim is to dare a necessary girl more and more by speaking in such manner.

If one liked this useful technique using which one can get a girls’ attention, take their phone numbers, date with them or something more, do look for information about the Corny&funny method in Internet.

Some men think that physical appearance is a key point at woman seducing. In fact it is not. We mean that it is not the main one. Even nice guys with beautiful muscles can lose a game. Even guys whose appearance is not so nice can seduce a woman if it would be necessary. If you did not get the main reason of seduction, it is your chance to read about it and even learn how to use it.

Rule №1.

First of all you need to remember that it is forbidden to look for another sexy lady when you are with your girl seating somewhere. Do not forget that she is the one, the best and she deserves your attention and respect.

Rule №2.

At the same time you should not be boring and do all the same every day. Be conventional! Girls do like interesting people which always have something to do. And moreover they do like people who do not obey common rules and logic. As example, make her an interesting present but do it in a way that she feels your love and sympathy. Be interesting not only in behavior but in words and talks, in conversations and avoid talking about two subjects as your previous relations and your job. Girls do not like to hear thing like that. Try to find some relate to both of you subjects.

Rule №3.

At the beginning of our article we have said that people with attentive appearance have fewer chances to seduce a woman if they do not know some secrets. Here we want to add that one more advantage of all men is personal cleanliness. It is necessary to pay attention to own appearance. All girls would pass by if a man takes a shower not so often as it is necessary or has untidy clothes etc. Take care of yourself and people will like you and being with you. It is not necessary to wear costume; even everyday clothes should look nice.

Rule №4.

One should be interesting not only in behavior but also one should have an ability to talk smart and interesting, know some facts which would be interesting to others. All women like smart discussions instead of shallow words. One should think about the meaning of own words because some expressions and opinions as, for example, the idea that all blond girls think only about own appearance, can hurt a girl even if she has dark hair. The start of the talk ought to be unserious and nice, and then one should find out how she is smart about the subject and after that one need to plan what to say.

Rule №5.

All girls, even if some of them try to avoid such opinion about themselves, dream about a price which will be brave and strong, gallantry and smart. Modern men need to remember this wish and try to follow it otherwise a girl will not notice this man. The main idea to follow is to make her feel like a queen. How? By following all the rules mentioned here. And one more thing: respect is the main word in any relationships. Do remember it.

Rule №6.

If one behaves like a prince it does not mean that it is not necessary any more not to watch out for own hands. Girls do not like it. Usage of some untoward word is not something terrible and doing wrong with hands can spoil everything. One can try to play with her hand, lightly, without any implication.

There is a special method which can help all men to understand how it is correct to seduce a woman. It is a Mystery Method which is based on one common for everyone thing — all people like to be captivated by those people who are successful in life. As one of the most common examples we can mention here is the fact that most men would usually pay their attention to pretty-looking women. And all girls are looking first of all for a brave and strong person which are self-confident and can be leaders. Such wishes, feelings, emotions have a really big influence on our life, on the way how we think, plan something, wait etc. Moreover exactly this fact is the reason that we, men and women, feel really exciting and uncomfortable when we are together with our boy- and girl-friends. Everything is very easy: when a really beautiful girl understands that a guy ignores her and do not pay any attention to her, she comes to conclusion that she is not enough good for him. And therefore she aims to win his attention.

Some words about M3 model.

The Mystery model mentioned above contains the key words — ease, allure and interest. These three words consist of three different stages. This technique is developed specially to help people to reach their goals.

1.      The first step is to interest and attract a girl

How? We advise to start a light conversation without using any pickup lines because girls usually do not like to hear something like this. In the talk you should notice your high standards of living to get her trust and interest. BUT: you should only mention it, do not pay too much attention to it. Talk about something the girl would like you for and during this conversation you should give her an idea that her beauty was not the only thing you saw her for. We want to give some tricks which can help to grap the attention of a necessary girl.

§         Girls notice that guys who took the attention of other girls. The girl will look for something in you which can be so attractive for others.

§         You should control the situation and nothing should be done unexpectedly. It is very riskily.

§         You should create such an atmosphere where a girl would feel safely and secured.

§         You should be unpredictable and be ready to leave at any moment.

§         You should take care of your own appearance

As conclusion of tricks above we want to point once again to: do not play safe — there must be the feeling of drive; be ready to leave at any moment — you will show that you are free and a girl will understand that you still are not her fan. You can understand if she is interested by her behavior — she will nervous.

2.      Everything should be easy

This is the second stage after the process of making her interested. Here it is very important to create such an atmosphere where he and she would feel friendly, relienced etc. You should remember that this stage is one of the most important and it demands a lot of time for realization.

3.      Seduction

It is the next step if the previous were successful. This period includes such part of relationships as physical level. Our Mystery method has here a special concept of so called Last Minute Resistance when implies the situation when a girl will allow further relationships or she will say «back off». So there are two possible ways of this relationship's development.

Another possible use of the method. 

On the same level with activities mentioned above one can use the Mystery method by teasing the girl one have chosen. As example - «nice hair color, is it a dye? It is really nice in any case» or something like this. Such teasing shows that a guy has noticed a girl but it does not mean that he has felt in love. And we want to point that it is necessary not to do too much otherwise it will look like offence. And you, guys, have another aim. Most men as many people used to think have a tendency to disregard girls and but this is to attract them. One should use this method carefully otherwise girls would not even take care what do men think of them.

When one analyzes the method one will come to conclusion that Mystery method is not offensive to girls if one uses it correctly. On the contrary it helps to focus attention of a girl on a man and how much does this man like her. However, the method of teasing can make a girl believe that not every and all men has felt in love with her and that it is necessary to charm they. The level of success of this method one can determine by the time when a girl starts to feel nervousness and low self-esteem.

Do you know how to tease a girl without any words?

There is one perfect way! You can use special signs and gestures which can perfectly bring the meaning of behavior without any words and special phrases. What exact signs can one use? There are many of them, as — walk away, be initiator of a conversation or to start to talk with someone else.

One more useful method.

The method which is an «advanced version» of teasing is disregarding. This method as the previous too is based on the psychological wish of every girl to win, and the hardest it would be, the most interest it will cause. So when a guy start a new play it would mean that he will be a winner for the first time and a girl in the same time will think that this guy is not interested in her. And exactly this opinion will help to win the girl's attention. And how one can disregard a girl? We can mention as example this phrase - «I'm sorry but what is the thing stuck between your teeth?»