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Men who want to find a girlfriend or just to start a light conversation with unknown for him girl for relationships usually use such method as pick up lines. What are the most common, popular or corny pick up lines for today?

1.      «I guess I know why you look so tired... You've been running in my head all the night long.»

2.      «Girl, if you haven't felt in love with me yet, I can pass again.»

3.      «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?»

4.      «I guess I saw you somewhere before but I cannot remember where? Yes! You are my dreams' queen!»

Men think that such pick up lines are very nice and interesting but let's find out what is girls' opinion of them.

1.      I think that the most stupid pickup line which men use is «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth? » It is really primitive!

2.      I think one will not find a mind-blowing chat up lines. All women consider every pickup line as stupid and childish. And for those men who are very difficult to speak to a girl I would advise to turn to a professional.

3.      Haven heard millions of pickup lines I want to advise all men to speak with girls like with friends, ordinary, without something special. It would not be so silly. When you are going to listen attentively what she says, you will find all necessary and suitable words which would not be considered as silly and uninteresting.

4.      I came to an conclusion that the only reason of all pickup lines' failures is its primitive and brief.

5.      Pick up lines can be also very embarrassing and the worth one I have ever got is «I got a hard-on by just looking at you... Weird, right? »

6.      I consider all chat up lines very stupid especially if they are like «I guess I saw you somewhere before but I cannot remember where? Yes! You are my dreams' queen! » or «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?» I wonder if there is nothing interesting and really clever what can be said to a woman??

Some more girls' advice to all men about your pick up lines using:

1.      One should not pretend, prepare, plan etc. pickup line before coming up and talk. Everything should look natural. A girl might consider them embarrassing and very awkward. First of all men who use such pick up lines show himself as a fool. Next I would like to tell one story happened to me — I was at one station when a man came to me and said if there was a long flight. I did not got the meaning and ask: «What flight?». The answer was: «The flight from heaven to earth..». Such explanation made me feel bad because of this rude stupid try to start a conversation.

2.      I beg you not to use pick up line of any kind! Why cannot you understand that? Why do not you want to say something simple, nice, natural as «I happy that I've met you» or «You look very nice today». It would be better to say that you do not like to use such pointless chat up lines that most men like to.

3.      Girls, I think that you will agree with me with the opinion that a brave and even bold man is that who can and will try to get acquainted with a girl when she is sitting with her friends. There are plenty of men who still consider that when a girl is with her friends somewhere ( in a cinema for example) it means that one should not come up to. This statement is absolutely wrong. Many women go out for meet new people. And when a man approaches a girl when she is not along it means that he is enough courageous to come up and this is very important fact which can give some credits more. There are many ways to make a girl understand that she is the reason of this pick up. Men, use indirect chat up lines as for example, «Hi! I'm … I think that we have met somewhere before, have not we?»

4.      Being yourself is what all girls look for. All pick up lines sounds rather stupid because they are not natural, they do not show a man, they are just like common wide spread methods and ways to start conversation. It is really easy to tell your name and to buy wine, soda etc. to a girl, to say that she looks nice.. As for me, the best pick up I've ever had was a suggestion to buy some ale or wine.. One should remember only one rule: a man should approach a girl along, without one's friends, even if this girl is with her friends.

This method is based on the rule to talk to a woman funny and using witty words what will certainly attract attention. There are many people who know that this method is the best one but the main advantage of it is the difficulty to use it. That makes this method popular and interesting but not common which is possible to use everywhere and by everyone. It is really difficult task to find really good word and a situation, in the right time. The try to be witty can be considered as a bit arrogant what can lead to implications and puns. People will not understand it appropriate.

Have you noticed that for a girl is it easier to get used to a person who jokes, but women might not do the same. That is easy to understand: girls like to communicate with those who can joke, who belong to a funny type of people, and women prefer to talk to that kind of men who will say serious things with wisdom and sense. Remember that it is possible to use this method talking with women too but one should modify it so that would be allowed to pronounce. And of cause one should do that in the correct time, place and situation. So that is the reason that the method can be used only by those who know much personalities and ways how to deal with them.

As we have already said not everyone is able to use this method because some people cannot joke in a light form and sometimes they hurt somebody even if they did not want to. It is necessary to spend a lot of time and energy to learn how to joke correctly. And on more thing which us worth to be mentioned is an ability to determine the type of the person which one wants to joke with.

We want to give some examples and using them to show how to act.

One should always remember that being cocky all the time is not so good and it is necessary to control its extents. If one very arrogant a girl might think one being rude but if one acts a bit humble she might come to conclusion that this man is too shy. One should determine the golden middle which will be the best. Some people use jokes to reduce arrogance.

One just need to remember that if one starts to learn this technique one needs to go to the end and never give up. And one should not release the power and authority which was gained in the relationships with a girl otherwise it would be very hard to return it back.

One should act like this: keep her waiting for something more in every word and statement one says. Es example we can add the next: in the talk with a girl one should control the situation and have an ability to change the subject or even to suggest doing something. One can use such pick up lines as «you look very nice though I have been with girls which are younger» or may be something like this: «oh, your dress looks very nice as for a girl» or may be any another variant. The aim of all such pickup lines is to flatter a girl but not too much for not being very rude.

After such lines a girl would ask such questions as if it was about her dress, was it good or not etc. And again one should not be direct in own answers to make this girl become more interesting. «May be. I think I would be able to make a decision at the end of this night». Such phrase is necessary to make the girl confused for some time and to make one more deep and offbeat. She will become interested in the man and would like to know about him more. In case if she ask about his job one should not give the direct answer but to explain the job. As example, fashion designer is such a profession which focuses on what all girls and women like to wear.

One should remember that all the answers ought to be implicit and all the questions can be as direct as implicit by one's own wish. For example, on one's question about her job she can say that she is a manager in a company what can impress him. His phrase here can sound like this: oh, and what are you going to do when you will be a full-grown woman?» Such question should be pronounced in a humorless way, not to be rude and hurt her by this question.

Be ready to a common talk of her and do not try to look like a clown joking all the time. Such unusual sentences should be used only from time to time otherwise one's such behavior can be boring for her. One should be serious for some time to show that one is serious in life too. In general one should be different and interesting.

This method in general seems to be difficult for learning and turning into life. In conclusion we can say that one can use any method which will be suitable for own personality.

There are many people who liked the Corny&funny method and do want to know about it more.  And there are some men who cannot understand that there is another way how to dare a girl instead of complimenting her.

We do understand such perplexity of these people because it is really difficult to realize that this method as all traditional is rather popular and efficient.

At first a man is about like this phrase – “Oh, when I tell her something like this she would think I am crazy or really full of myself!” Dear men, you are mistaken.

The main thing one should remember is that the objective matter is not pleasing a girl but to catch her. An easy example: an girl would consider such words rather rude and would not like to communicate but another girl will like it and think it is funny and nice. One should not use logic or mathematics to find a way to get a girl interested.

There is no doubt that everyone knows at least one couple where a man is rather rude with his girl and what is most interesting she is dating with him. And sometimes it can be rather unexpected to find out that even some quiet girls like such kind of treatment.

What can be the reason for such phenomenon?

It is really very easy – the matter is in the method of attraction.

A girl can fall in love with a man without using any logic and she will not even think about it! When a girl is in love, she cannot back off – it is really too hard – even if a man is not a super hero.

Next we are going to tell about the Cocny&funny method, its principles and technique, how to use this method and another useful information.

First of all we want to point that the Cocny&funny method requires as humor, as arrogance at the same time.

One should not be very conceited because in this case a girl may consider him as a rude man, and he might lose some points.

At the same time one should not behave like an idiot being fooling like a clown because a girl would like to spend some time with him at all.

So, the best way to behave is being arrogance and use humor at the same time. Such technique would make a girl being interested at this person what is exactly the necessary target for every guy.

And now we want to point some main principles of Cocky & funny method.

Some examples:

as self-confident phrase – “The outfit is showing her body in the worth shape”, as arrogant and humorous pickup line – “if this girl does not follow any fashion rules, they will arrest her for breaking all these rules”.

Is it clearer to understand the meaning of all words above?

Actually why girls can be interested in a man which uses this method?

By acting according to this method one can demonstrate and let know everything what one wants to and at the same time let something unknown what arouse girls’ interest.

Using the Cocny&funny method one has more chances to stick in memory than those who are already suck up to girls who do not even want to answer messages of such men. And it is not interesting for girls to communicate with those men who get easily anxious in their presence.

When one meet a nice girl which is really very pretty, it is necessary to act and be funny what will tell her something like this: “you is really nice and sweet but you cannot get my full attention. So the charm you have does not get me and at the same time there is some stuff in you that I like”.

Remember that it is necessary to be arrogant and have some tricks and amusements, and also one needs to have a control over a girl’s attitude and reactions.

When one follows all advice above such situation is possible:

Tomorrow. Supermarket. A queue to pay.

-         What is your share from all the money being paid? – a man ask.

-         I think nothing… though I would live to. – a possible answer

-         Actually I thought you are waiting for a commission of something… You look a pretty well-off and I thought it was possible of you to help me, at the moment, I am intrigued no more. – one should say that with self-confidence.

Remember that it is very important to create the feeling of the situation that the exact thing is interesting for him and no more. This line written above is thought to be a hit, a very popular and efficient line.

When one wishes to use this method as a professional, one should remember that it is necessary to keep oneself together and control own feelings. In case if a girl asks something like this: “Did I hear you right in the time when you were talking to me like that?”, do not tell that it was just a joke because this answer will create a lot of damage and can spoil everything.

To the answer like: “Listen to me attentively – I do not have such money but I am a sweet woman” do continue the play and say the next words: “It is not enough to be sweet; I want it and with cash at the same time”. The main aim is to dare a necessary girl more and more by speaking in such manner.

If one liked this useful technique using which one can get a girls’ attention, take their phone numbers, date with them or something more, do look for information about the Corny&funny method in Internet.

Pick up lines was, is and will be real problem for many men all over the globe. For girls it is rather strange to understand the actual reasons but they usually hear something dirty, sick and corny. Why? First, many men (like women by the way) are very or rather shy and it is difficult to say something really clever and good to a girl which he likes. Many men have negative experience of such communication (pick up lines) and it is your fault, girls! They do not know how to talk to us! And there are men who think that women like to hear corny pick up lines or something like this. Why do they think so?

Here in this article we are going to speak about the last view and first of all we want to present the most popular corny pick up lines, which every woman or girl have heart at least once:

Excuse me, can you tell me the time? – it is the most popular one. People who use this phrase are usually very shy and modest. They cannot express their feelings openly to a girl and they are afraid of the necessity to give the understanding of the fact that they liked her. And a girl who was asked this question clearly knows the real reason of this phrase because of the gestures, mimicry, eyes, because of all his appearance which shows the interest in communication but this sentence is just stupid and every girl wants to hear something more.

Do you have a map? I just keep on getting lost in your eyes. – This phrase is more interesting than previous but still rather standard and it will not help to get acquainted with somebody. Moreover such word expression looks very trite and it is going to present a man like an ordinary unsure person.

Help, something's wrong with my eyes - I just can't take them off you. – It was very nice and cute many many years ago when this phrase was fresh and now it would be better not to use it any more.

I think I feel like Richard Gere - I'm standing next to you, the Pretty Woman. – The film mentioned here is very great, it is classic and  this phrase was good when the movie was new and now it is not outstanding to say something like this cause the popularity of “pretty woman” is well known and this sentence looks rather common.

There are so many corny pick up lines that in Internet one can easily find lots of lists with very standard stupid sentences. And the advice we are going to give to all men is to look these lists up and not to use them because one will not reach wishful goals. Dear men, you should be more romantic, interesting, uncontemplated, unpredictable.. One usually thinks that it is pleasant to hear something shameless but it is a great mistake! Just image if it would be pleasant for you, men, to hear something like “You're so hot you melt the plastic in my underwear” or “Your daddy must have been a baker, 'cause you've got a nice set of buns” or “Wow! Are those real?” or thousands of such more.

Remember the rule using corny pick up lines!

If one wants to find a girl from a fairy tale it is necessary to treat women like a princess, to make her feel like a queen. In fact all people want to be loved, desired, to feel that they are the best for only one person at least (and it does not matter for men or women cause in this wish we are same).

All people know that firstly we meet a stranger by his/her clothes, behavior, words and opinions and only then we during some time can learn him/her, the nature of this person, wishes, goals etc. and then understand if we like/love/hate him. And before all this, when a man tries to get acquainted with a woman only his pick up lines can create the first opinion what will be the reason for future possible relationships. Corny pickup lines are not so good and effective here, and if one wants to find a girlfriend it is necessary to look up for own imagination or for appropriate variants in Internet otherwise you always “be sick” and the only medicine for you will “be a try to talk to us”.

More About Pick Up Lines

How do you think what is the start of any personal knowledge between two people? What is the first moment of their communication? One can say that it is a smile, a regard, a compliment... in fact it is really true, but not only, as you really know that the most important thing are the first words - their meaning, the intonation, was it standard or not... and of course the voice of the person who has said it. All these points at the first blush are not significant at all, but on the contrary they form our impression, due to them we form our decision if we like the author or not.
Have you ever thought how it is important to say the right pick up line in the right time and situation? These words should interest, they should attract the person you wish. You must cause reaction - "What? What did he said?" or "Are you serious?" or something like this.
Many people think that pick up lines are not worth to be discussed just because it is not difficult to say the right pickup line in a good and clever chosen period of time. Unfortunately these people are mistaken...
In fact, telling pick up lines is not so easy as it can seem. Each girl wants to hear something special, interesting and unusual; something what will be so nice, beautiful and sweet but at the same moment nonstandard.. and poor man have to invent something like this and even more - he needs to guess the girl's character because one girl likes nice, neutral pick up lines and another - bold and creative.. So it depends..
The most usual and common pick up lines are such as "I'm sure that we have met before" or "Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?" or "Are you a doctor?.." or "You are God's work of art" but sometimes it is really horrible to hear such pickup line as "Could you give me some change/phone to call? My mother asked me to ring when I find a perfect woman". May be earlier it was nice and creative but now it is really not!
So, in conclusion we would like to ask men and women, boys and girls, actually everyone to be original and individual. To be creative means to show own character and individuality, to be funny if it is necessary or on the contrary to be serious.. Pick up lines is that indicator which tells much more about you than clothes, style and appearance. Just turn on own imagination and you will not have any difficulties to think up the first words which will be pronounced to your possible love, great and exciting!

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There is a special method which can help all men to understand how it is correct to seduce a woman. It is a Mystery Method which is based on one common for everyone thing — all people like to be captivated by those people who are successful in life. As one of the most common examples we can mention here is the fact that most men would usually pay their attention to pretty-looking women. And all girls are looking first of all for a brave and strong person which are self-confident and can be leaders. Such wishes, feelings, emotions have a really big influence on our life, on the way how we think, plan something, wait etc. Moreover exactly this fact is the reason that we, men and women, feel really exciting and uncomfortable when we are together with our boy- and girl-friends. Everything is very easy: when a really beautiful girl understands that a guy ignores her and do not pay any attention to her, she comes to conclusion that she is not enough good for him. And therefore she aims to win his attention.

Some words about M3 model.

The Mystery model mentioned above contains the key words — ease, allure and interest. These three words consist of three different stages. This technique is developed specially to help people to reach their goals.

1.      The first step is to interest and attract a girl

How? We advise to start a light conversation without using any pickup lines because girls usually do not like to hear something like this. In the talk you should notice your high standards of living to get her trust and interest. BUT: you should only mention it, do not pay too much attention to it. Talk about something the girl would like you for and during this conversation you should give her an idea that her beauty was not the only thing you saw her for. We want to give some tricks which can help to grap the attention of a necessary girl.

§         Girls notice that guys who took the attention of other girls. The girl will look for something in you which can be so attractive for others.

§         You should control the situation and nothing should be done unexpectedly. It is very riskily.

§         You should create such an atmosphere where a girl would feel safely and secured.

§         You should be unpredictable and be ready to leave at any moment.

§         You should take care of your own appearance

As conclusion of tricks above we want to point once again to: do not play safe — there must be the feeling of drive; be ready to leave at any moment — you will show that you are free and a girl will understand that you still are not her fan. You can understand if she is interested by her behavior — she will nervous.

2.      Everything should be easy

This is the second stage after the process of making her interested. Here it is very important to create such an atmosphere where he and she would feel friendly, relienced etc. You should remember that this stage is one of the most important and it demands a lot of time for realization.

3.      Seduction

It is the next step if the previous were successful. This period includes such part of relationships as physical level. Our Mystery method has here a special concept of so called Last Minute Resistance when implies the situation when a girl will allow further relationships or she will say «back off». So there are two possible ways of this relationship's development.

Another possible use of the method. 

On the same level with activities mentioned above one can use the Mystery method by teasing the girl one have chosen. As example - «nice hair color, is it a dye? It is really nice in any case» or something like this. Such teasing shows that a guy has noticed a girl but it does not mean that he has felt in love. And we want to point that it is necessary not to do too much otherwise it will look like offence. And you, guys, have another aim. Most men as many people used to think have a tendency to disregard girls and but this is to attract them. One should use this method carefully otherwise girls would not even take care what do men think of them.

When one analyzes the method one will come to conclusion that Mystery method is not offensive to girls if one uses it correctly. On the contrary it helps to focus attention of a girl on a man and how much does this man like her. However, the method of teasing can make a girl believe that not every and all men has felt in love with her and that it is necessary to charm they. The level of success of this method one can determine by the time when a girl starts to feel nervousness and low self-esteem.

Do you know how to tease a girl without any words?

There is one perfect way! You can use special signs and gestures which can perfectly bring the meaning of behavior without any words and special phrases. What exact signs can one use? There are many of them, as — walk away, be initiator of a conversation or to start to talk with someone else.

One more useful method.

The method which is an «advanced version» of teasing is disregarding. This method as the previous too is based on the psychological wish of every girl to win, and the hardest it would be, the most interest it will cause. So when a guy start a new play it would mean that he will be a winner for the first time and a girl in the same time will think that this guy is not interested in her. And exactly this opinion will help to win the girl's attention. And how one can disregard a girl? We can mention as example this phrase - «I'm sorry but what is the thing stuck between your teeth?»