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The next our talk we are going to devote to such interesting and common for today issue as threesomes. We want to find out the reasons and determine all pros and cons.

There many people who have tried to be with two partners at the same time and there are even more people who want to know how is it. One can name many reasons why do people look for two partners. For example the most interesting wish and dream for a big amount of men is to have sex with two girls at the same time. And there are plenty of girls who want to try to be with two men together. This one will thing is more unusual for girls but we want to admit it real.

One of the most common reasons which we have already mentioned is a wish to try something new. A person which is with one partner has feelings of one sort, and when he/she is with more than one partners he/she has another feelings. And for many people it is interesting to feel deeply both of them. It does not mean that this person will continue such relationships. Also there are such people who have been married for example, and they have such a feeling that they have missed something or just has not tried everything they wanted, so such people do such experiments. And of cause there are people for whom a traditional way is not interesting any more.

Reasons:

·         one's partner want to give more pleasure one wishes and that is why he/she inspired the idea of threesomes;

·         the biggest popularity of threesomes is among the people who like to have special relationships as with male, as with female;

·         for a girl who likes both sex it is rather ordinary to be with the man only, so she wants to have some variability. The same it is possible to say about men too.

·         at the same time it is correct for people whose mood and tastes change very fast and they are looking for something new all the time. So they will be the first people who will agree to get such an experience.

Threesomes and its kinds

The most common situation is when there is one male and two females. The second is the opposite situation to the first — one female and two male. So, there are also cases with tree males or three females. It is possible when lesbians or gays have sex with straight performers. Also there are people who like to watch how their partners have sex with the third person.

What are the pros and cons of threesomes?

We want to point to one very significant condition: everyone of people who are threesomes together should want to have pleasure otherwise there would be some consequences for them. As example, we can remember a couple where one partner wants to give strong pleasure to another and that is why he/she agrees for threesomes. Another con is connected with those people who are in marriage and are happy of this. Threesomes assume no commitments and absolute freedom. And when one's beloved has sex with another person even if there is no any love, it can lead to some troubles with relationships in future. Though if a couple has not serious relationships and both of them taking fun it would not cause any serious problems.

In the text above we were talking only about a couple in the relations of threesomes but we have not mentioned the third part here. For this person such relations are really not so difficult and problematic because he/she has no any commitments — just freedom in any kind of relations, form any marital problems. Moreover this person has even some advantages as he/she is the third — the new one what will be interesting as for one partner, as for another. Another negative moment here, in threesomes, is the situation where a couple has such an experience for the first time and there were not any previous tries. And the worst what can be is when a female in the couple do not want to have threesomes relations and any sex with another girl and when her partner urge her to do that.

The situation where there are affection and care present in such relationships, can cause some difficulties because one could feel strange seeing beloved with another man or woman. So it will be hard time for the couple who had threesomes relations in the past to go through it, and the third part would feel guilty for the possible troubles happen in a couple's relations.

What can we say into conclusion?

First of all is that it is necessary to recommend married couple or those who have serious relations not to try threesomes because of possible troubles which can lead to a break. If such people want to refresh their sex life they can try anything else as a dirty talk etc. However, if there is a person who has not any serious relations and wants to try threesomes but at the same moment has a little experience, we advise to not look for extra information before — it is much better to get it in the moment.

One should remember that it is possible to find one of the performers which was involved in the process. Also it is good for everyone to try the both roles: as a sex subject and as a performer. One more thing what is necessary to remember is to avoid neglecting any person to take part in the process: some people often forget about their partners concentrating on a stranger. This often causes marital problems after.

What is one of the key advantages of threesomes is an ability to give pleasure and happiness to two people at the same time and to watch how they feel it.

Why do some men are really very attractive and have plenty of women around and some cannot achieve the same results? Does it depend on status, money or something like this? We do not think that classes or life style etc. can play here a significant role. A personality is the exact matter of fact here. Now it is possible to find plenty of different methods which can help to become interesting to a girl. They are not too difficult though they need to be trained out before usage. Go on reading this article and you will find here some interesting information which can help to achieve a goal.

Our first advice is to use words correctly thinking about what and when you are going to say. Girls are different and one will be pleased to hear something dirty and another is looking for a prince. Articulation is one more important factor which plays very important role. Pay attention to her reaction and if you see that she is not very happy and interested in a talk with you, you should better look for another girl. Learn and do some conclusions all the time, watch what your words were successful and what you should not do any more.

When you have started a talk and have already met one more time, remember that there are three very significant points for every girl:

·         Be gentle all the time because it is the first think girls notice and it plays a key role in your relations.

·         It is almost unreal to make a girl happy when you do not know her really well but try to find out what she likes.

·         You should foresee what she wants you to do or what kind of relations she wants to have.

These three simple rules will help you be in the center of girl's attention.

And there is also one thing you should not do. We mean talking about physical relations because girls do not like men who think about it all the time and start to talk about it early, at the beginning of their relationships. Try to avoid this subject until the time when a girl herself will start it by any way. You will surprise by a girl needs to prepare to this emotionally and when she is ready she will give a sign.

Remember these simple rules and you will see that seducing is not very difficult thing to do.

Men who want to find a girlfriend or just to start a light conversation with unknown for him girl for relationships usually use such method as pick up lines. What are the most common, popular or corny pick up lines for today?

1.      «I guess I know why you look so tired... You've been running in my head all the night long.»

2.      «Girl, if you haven't felt in love with me yet, I can pass again.»

3.      «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?»

4.      «I guess I saw you somewhere before but I cannot remember where? Yes! You are my dreams' queen!»

Men think that such pick up lines are very nice and interesting but let's find out what is girls' opinion of them.

1.      I think that the most stupid pickup line which men use is «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth? » It is really primitive!

2.      I think one will not find a mind-blowing chat up lines. All women consider every pickup line as stupid and childish. And for those men who are very difficult to speak to a girl I would advise to turn to a professional.

3.      Haven heard millions of pickup lines I want to advise all men to speak with girls like with friends, ordinary, without something special. It would not be so silly. When you are going to listen attentively what she says, you will find all necessary and suitable words which would not be considered as silly and uninteresting.

4.      I came to an conclusion that the only reason of all pickup lines' failures is its primitive and brief.

5.      Pick up lines can be also very embarrassing and the worth one I have ever got is «I got a hard-on by just looking at you... Weird, right? »

6.      I consider all chat up lines very stupid especially if they are like «I guess I saw you somewhere before but I cannot remember where? Yes! You are my dreams' queen! » or «Has it been a long flight from paradise to earth?» I wonder if there is nothing interesting and really clever what can be said to a woman??

Some more girls' advice to all men about your pick up lines using:

1.      One should not pretend, prepare, plan etc. pickup line before coming up and talk. Everything should look natural. A girl might consider them embarrassing and very awkward. First of all men who use such pick up lines show himself as a fool. Next I would like to tell one story happened to me — I was at one station when a man came to me and said if there was a long flight. I did not got the meaning and ask: «What flight?». The answer was: «The flight from heaven to earth..». Such explanation made me feel bad because of this rude stupid try to start a conversation.

2.      I beg you not to use pick up line of any kind! Why cannot you understand that? Why do not you want to say something simple, nice, natural as «I happy that I've met you» or «You look very nice today». It would be better to say that you do not like to use such pointless chat up lines that most men like to.

3.      Girls, I think that you will agree with me with the opinion that a brave and even bold man is that who can and will try to get acquainted with a girl when she is sitting with her friends. There are plenty of men who still consider that when a girl is with her friends somewhere ( in a cinema for example) it means that one should not come up to. This statement is absolutely wrong. Many women go out for meet new people. And when a man approaches a girl when she is not along it means that he is enough courageous to come up and this is very important fact which can give some credits more. There are many ways to make a girl understand that she is the reason of this pick up. Men, use indirect chat up lines as for example, «Hi! I'm … I think that we have met somewhere before, have not we?»

4.      Being yourself is what all girls look for. All pick up lines sounds rather stupid because they are not natural, they do not show a man, they are just like common wide spread methods and ways to start conversation. It is really easy to tell your name and to buy wine, soda etc. to a girl, to say that she looks nice.. As for me, the best pick up I've ever had was a suggestion to buy some ale or wine.. One should remember only one rule: a man should approach a girl along, without one's friends, even if this girl is with her friends.

Some men think that physical appearance is a key point at woman seducing. In fact it is not. We mean that it is not the main one. Even nice guys with beautiful muscles can lose a game. Even guys whose appearance is not so nice can seduce a woman if it would be necessary. If you did not get the main reason of seduction, it is your chance to read about it and even learn how to use it.

Rule №1.

First of all you need to remember that it is forbidden to look for another sexy lady when you are with your girl seating somewhere. Do not forget that she is the one, the best and she deserves your attention and respect.

Rule №2.

At the same time you should not be boring and do all the same every day. Be conventional! Girls do like interesting people which always have something to do. And moreover they do like people who do not obey common rules and logic. As example, make her an interesting present but do it in a way that she feels your love and sympathy. Be interesting not only in behavior but in words and talks, in conversations and avoid talking about two subjects as your previous relations and your job. Girls do not like to hear thing like that. Try to find some relate to both of you subjects.

Rule №3.

At the beginning of our article we have said that people with attentive appearance have fewer chances to seduce a woman if they do not know some secrets. Here we want to add that one more advantage of all men is personal cleanliness. It is necessary to pay attention to own appearance. All girls would pass by if a man takes a shower not so often as it is necessary or has untidy clothes etc. Take care of yourself and people will like you and being with you. It is not necessary to wear costume; even everyday clothes should look nice.

Rule №4.

One should be interesting not only in behavior but also one should have an ability to talk smart and interesting, know some facts which would be interesting to others. All women like smart discussions instead of shallow words. One should think about the meaning of own words because some expressions and opinions as, for example, the idea that all blond girls think only about own appearance, can hurt a girl even if she has dark hair. The start of the talk ought to be unserious and nice, and then one should find out how she is smart about the subject and after that one need to plan what to say.

Rule №5.

All girls, even if some of them try to avoid such opinion about themselves, dream about a price which will be brave and strong, gallantry and smart. Modern men need to remember this wish and try to follow it otherwise a girl will not notice this man. The main idea to follow is to make her feel like a queen. How? By following all the rules mentioned here. And one more thing: respect is the main word in any relationships. Do remember it.

Rule №6.

If one behaves like a prince it does not mean that it is not necessary any more not to watch out for own hands. Girls do not like it. Usage of some untoward word is not something terrible and doing wrong with hands can spoil everything. One can try to play with her hand, lightly, without any implication.

There is a special method which can help all men to understand how it is correct to seduce a woman. It is a Mystery Method which is based on one common for everyone thing — all people like to be captivated by those people who are successful in life. As one of the most common examples we can mention here is the fact that most men would usually pay their attention to pretty-looking women. And all girls are looking first of all for a brave and strong person which are self-confident and can be leaders. Such wishes, feelings, emotions have a really big influence on our life, on the way how we think, plan something, wait etc. Moreover exactly this fact is the reason that we, men and women, feel really exciting and uncomfortable when we are together with our boy- and girl-friends. Everything is very easy: when a really beautiful girl understands that a guy ignores her and do not pay any attention to her, she comes to conclusion that she is not enough good for him. And therefore she aims to win his attention.

Some words about M3 model.

The Mystery model mentioned above contains the key words — ease, allure and interest. These three words consist of three different stages. This technique is developed specially to help people to reach their goals.

1.      The first step is to interest and attract a girl

How? We advise to start a light conversation without using any pickup lines because girls usually do not like to hear something like this. In the talk you should notice your high standards of living to get her trust and interest. BUT: you should only mention it, do not pay too much attention to it. Talk about something the girl would like you for and during this conversation you should give her an idea that her beauty was not the only thing you saw her for. We want to give some tricks which can help to grap the attention of a necessary girl.

§         Girls notice that guys who took the attention of other girls. The girl will look for something in you which can be so attractive for others.

§         You should control the situation and nothing should be done unexpectedly. It is very riskily.

§         You should create such an atmosphere where a girl would feel safely and secured.

§         You should be unpredictable and be ready to leave at any moment.

§         You should take care of your own appearance

As conclusion of tricks above we want to point once again to: do not play safe — there must be the feeling of drive; be ready to leave at any moment — you will show that you are free and a girl will understand that you still are not her fan. You can understand if she is interested by her behavior — she will nervous.

2.      Everything should be easy

This is the second stage after the process of making her interested. Here it is very important to create such an atmosphere where he and she would feel friendly, relienced etc. You should remember that this stage is one of the most important and it demands a lot of time for realization.

3.      Seduction

It is the next step if the previous were successful. This period includes such part of relationships as physical level. Our Mystery method has here a special concept of so called Last Minute Resistance when implies the situation when a girl will allow further relationships or she will say «back off». So there are two possible ways of this relationship's development.

Another possible use of the method. 

On the same level with activities mentioned above one can use the Mystery method by teasing the girl one have chosen. As example - «nice hair color, is it a dye? It is really nice in any case» or something like this. Such teasing shows that a guy has noticed a girl but it does not mean that he has felt in love. And we want to point that it is necessary not to do too much otherwise it will look like offence. And you, guys, have another aim. Most men as many people used to think have a tendency to disregard girls and but this is to attract them. One should use this method carefully otherwise girls would not even take care what do men think of them.

When one analyzes the method one will come to conclusion that Mystery method is not offensive to girls if one uses it correctly. On the contrary it helps to focus attention of a girl on a man and how much does this man like her. However, the method of teasing can make a girl believe that not every and all men has felt in love with her and that it is necessary to charm they. The level of success of this method one can determine by the time when a girl starts to feel nervousness and low self-esteem.

Do you know how to tease a girl without any words?

There is one perfect way! You can use special signs and gestures which can perfectly bring the meaning of behavior without any words and special phrases. What exact signs can one use? There are many of them, as — walk away, be initiator of a conversation or to start to talk with someone else.

One more useful method.

The method which is an «advanced version» of teasing is disregarding. This method as the previous too is based on the psychological wish of every girl to win, and the hardest it would be, the most interest it will cause. So when a guy start a new play it would mean that he will be a winner for the first time and a girl in the same time will think that this guy is not interested in her. And exactly this opinion will help to win the girl's attention. And how one can disregard a girl? We can mention as example this phrase - «I'm sorry but what is the thing stuck between your teeth?»